American Bar Association
"Attorney as Problem-Solver
Award"

Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
"Irwin Cantor Innovative
Program Award"

WhileWeHeal

Parents--
If you are in conflict
your children are in danger.
And only you, their parents,
can protect them from that danger.
A free, confidential, and engaging website for parents wishing to protect their children and themselves.
Congratulations on deciding to help yourself and your family by using this unique website.  It was made for parents wishing to remember their children's needs as they work through marital problems.

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"Great website! I can’t wait to apply these lessons – as a matter of fact, it has inspired me to make changes already.”
—father, Altanta, Georgia
Winner of "ABA Lawyer as Problem-Solver Award."
"It was great. I wish that I would have gotten a hold of this much earlier.  Please make this a prerequisite to getting divorced.”
—father, Riverside, California
“I loved the website. These are things you know but can never hear enough.  I loved that it’s personalized to our family and, most of all, our daughter.”
—mother, Nashville, Tennessee
“This is so informative and easy to use.  A+!  It helped me tremendously.”
—mother, Indianapolis, Indiana
Winner of "AFCC Outstanding Innovative Program Award."
“This is great for the children of divorce. Even when we love each other, we can hurt them by accident. Thanks for these reminders!”
—father, Nashville, Tennessee
“I was really surprised by everything that I didn’t know. This was a requirement from court, and it is going to help me a lot.”
—mother, Santa Ana, California
“This website really puts things in perspective. It makes you realize that no matter how trying times are, you’ll do best by thinking about your kids first.”
—father, NSW, Australia
“I really enjoyed it. It reminds me how we must work together even now. I will tell others about this.”
—father, Temecula, California
“A long-needed site. My sincere applause. It was definitely very helpful to me personally – and so effective in extracting a lot of deep emotion and empathy.”
—father, Valparaiso, Indiana
“I actually thought it would be a waste of time.  But right when I started, I cried. I really wasn’t looking at everything through my daughter’s eyes and her needs.   Please keep this website going.”
—father, Easthampton, Massachusetts
“Having been a child from a horrible divorce, I think this is a great idea. Some of the videos on this website brought me to tears.  I will absolutely recommend this to others."
—mother, Nashville, Tennessee
"Extremely helpful. It helped me to refocus on my children and how my pain is hurting them. I would recommend this to anyone dealing with separation or divorce.”
—mother, Blairsville, Georgia